Engrish-only

It seems fittingly ironic that I studied Spanish in college, hoped to find a job teaching in Latin America or in Spain, and in the end, me and my Spanish language skills (deteriorated though they might be) are here in Japan.  We have been rekindling our relationship, my Spanish skills and I.  You can find us together in most places here in Japan, staring awkwardly at each other when can’t understand spoken or written Japanese, shaking our heads and thinking: “Damn girl, couldn’t you have found room for a Japanese first year series in your undergraduate courses?”

I did try to learn a few phrases from the audio Pimsleur language learning series before I left.  It was very useful, but I had a hard time fitting in time for learning because I was busy with the end of the school term and trip preparations.  But thanks to Pimsleur, I can say a few essential phrases:

-”Sumimasen” (Excuse me / I’m sorry)

-”Ohio gozaimas / Konichiwa / Kom ban wa” (Good morning / Good afternoon / Good evening)

-”Nihongo-ga wakarimas-sen.” (I don’t know Japanese.)

-”Eigo-ga wakarimas-ka?” (Do you know English?)

-”Domo arigato gozaimas.” (Thank you very much.)

-”Domo” (Thanks)

-”Kudasai” (Please)

-”Oy-shi-katta” (That was delicious!”

-”[insert noun / toy-re] wa doko des-ka?” (Where is the (e.g. toilet)?)

-”Hai” (Yes)

-”Ei” (No)

These basic phrases are enough to get by and communicate most things politely.  But communication gets muddled or halted completely when the conversation gets more complicated… like checking for hotel room availability for a place that doesn’t do online booking.  Figuring out proper postage and asking questions for how to write on a special money-sending envelope.  Wanting to have more than a basic conversation, but not being able to.  Wondering if a bag of white powder food stuff at the grocery store is sugar or salt.  Desperately wanting to practice little phrases with store clerks, who narrate and guide the entire transaction with what I assume are polite little phrases.  Wanting to know the ingredients of the food that I’m considering for purchase, but not being able to read a damn thing.  Being able to answer back immediately when a group of drunken festival men dressed in white shorts ask you if you’d like to be hoisted up and blessed in their local festival way (they originally asked me in Japanese and I had no idea what they said until a coworker translated for me a few seconds later).

(It just occurred to me that I haven’t written a blog post about this festival that happened a few weeks ago.  I will get around to writing about this soon… it was lots of fun!)

Somtimes it’s just as well that I can’t speak Japanese, because even if I was able to, doing so here at the university would break the rules of the intensive English program that I work in, which maintains a strict “English-only” policy for students and faculty in the classrooms, cafeterias, and a few other instructional situations.  Much to my surprise and pleasure, the majority of these students actually follow the rule!  It’s rare that I want or need to speak or read Japanese on campus, but the desire to not come off as illiterate tourist is definitely felt when I’m out and about in the little villages around here or whilst speaking with the facilities staff members.

I’ve had a few interesting language interchanges with the university facilities staff.  Here on campus, there is an “energy center”, which is in charge of switching the air conditioning on and off for the entire university.  In response to the 3/11 earthquake and the nuclear power plant shut downs, Japan is making serious efforts to reduce their power consumption, so as to avoid rolling blackouts for lack of power resources.  Thusly, if you stay late in your office here or if you would like the air conditioning switched on or off in the gym, you must call the energy center and request for them to turn the AC on or off.

The first time I worked past 18:00 (6:00 p.m.), which is the magical witching hour for air conditioner shut-off in my office building, I called the energy center.  Someone answered the phone with a polite Japanese expression and I responded with “Kom ban wa” (good evening, remember?).  Then I proceeded in slowly paced English with my request: “Please turn on the air conditioning.  Research Center, room 205.”

…Cue the music for Led Zepplin’s “COMMUNICATION BREAKDOOOWN!”

Communication Breakdown

Needless to say, the air conditioning did not get turned on.  (Later I remembered that I was given a little phrase book by my the university for facility-specific essential phrases like this one.  Whoops.)

The next time I found myself in need of calling the energy center, I was in the gym and I wanted to have the AC turned off (for warm, stretchy yoga practice!)  I did not have my little aforementioned university phrase book.  But I did remember some advice that my friends who had traveled to Japan before gave to me, which was to “speak Engrish (speak English with a heavy Japanese accent) and you will be understood”.   I took a deep breath, picked up the phone, and called the energy center.

EC: “Polite-Japanese-greeting-phrase-that-Rachel-can’t-remember verbatim”

Me: “Konichiwa.  Hai, airo condishun, room one pifty (150), please turn off-o. Okay?”

EC:  “OH OKAY! Room one pifty, off-o. Hai, hai.”

Me: “Arigato gozaimas”

… within 30 seconds, the AC in the gym was shut off, as requested.

I couldn’t believe that speaking Engrish actually worked.  I felt so rude for using a mocked accent for real communication, but as far as I know, the reception with the person that I spoke with was positive, and the message was communicated.  So… win!  Right?  Maybe?  Who knows.

Whenever I go off campus, I’m always sure to keep my Lonely Planet phrase book near me and I should really be practicing some more Pimsleur lessons when I have free time in my dorm.  But knowing that Engrish is seemingly unoffensive to Japanese speakers (unless I’m completely misreading the cues) and that it can get the message across in a pinch is a nice little tool to have in the language tool belt.

FIFA Women’s World Cup!

Last Monday, at 04:00 (Japan time), the women’s soccer teams from Japan and the United States duked it out in the final match of the FIFA Women’s World Cup.  Here are all of my thoughts on how the match turned out, A DEFINITE SPOILER ALERT if you are still waiting to see that epic game (and by the way, if you haven’t seen it, shame on you, it’s been almost a week, get to viewing that game already!)…

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JAPAN WON!

That game was one of the best soccer matches I’ve ever seen in my life.  I didn’t get up at 4:00 a.m. here to watch it, but my coworker, who is a Japanese woman and a hard core women’s soccer fan, did wake up to watch it and in retrospect, I wish I had joined her.  She and other male Japanese students in my class were thrilled at the outcome!  I, being the sleep wuss that I am, watched a replay later that day at 6:30 p.m. on the “BS” television network (bahaha!)  What a game!  Tied 1-1 at the end of the game, tied 2-2 in 30 minutes of OT, and then what a dramatic shoot out win with penalty kicks!  Supposedly, the USA women are ‘effing awesome with the PKs… but not that night.  3-2 was the final winning score.

Both the USA and Japan fought equally hard and brought their best skills to the field.  The USA team was more aggressive in the first half of the game, but they lost some of their steam in the second half.  There were no fake injuries to slow the game down, and only one “magic spray” analgesic application by the medical team for an actual, legit, gross and bleeding scrape on the knee.  Both teams played so well together and both teams played appropriately aggressive.  Japan’s team captain, Sawa, tirelessly motivated her team in the final match while also playing her heart out.  And Japan’s goalie, Ayumi Kaihori, made SO MANY AWESOME SAVES; catches, punches, and even a kick deflection during one of the PKs in the end!  I’ve never seen anything like that before.

I thought the red card on the Japanese player in OT was unnecessary… yes she tackled a player close to the box, but it was an appropriate and legit tackle.  Oh well.

Man, that game was great.  I was an edgy bundle of nerves for most of the second half and all of the post-game play AND I KNEW what the final score was already!

I think overly-aggressive male soccer players around the world, especially in the professional leagues, should take notice of the fact that soccer can be played without unnecessary aggression, violence, jersey-pulling, and fake injuries to slow the game down.  I really hate watching men’s soccer these days for those very reasons; it’s a giant testosterone festival instead of a game, in my opinion.  The MLS league is all right, those guys don’t get so aggressive and they play smart for the most part.

I think it’s very worth mentioning that both teams made it to the final match while playing on a continent which neither of their countries is on (the tournament was held in Germany).  Japan also beat the host country on their home turf… an amazing feat to say the least.

I got a little teary-eyed watching the celebration ceremony for Japan at the end of the game  This country has suffered so much this year and to have a win like this is a real moral boost for them.  I’m so happy for them!  And I’d like to get a women’s soccer t-shirt or something to commemorate the fact that I was here when they won the 2011 Women’s World Cup!

Five gripes about Japan

If you’ve been reading this blog the past few weeks, by now you likely know that I am intrigued by Japan and I am having a love affair with this place and all of the fun idiosyncrasies it has to reveal.  There is so much to like here and there are so many unique-to-Japan sights, so many in fact that it is impossible to photograph and share them all.  I’m definitely putting forth my best effort to capture as many images and write as much as possible about my experiences here, but even then it’s hard to capture just how charming this place is.  Case in point, just a few nights ago I saw this wonderful sign while out on a bike ride:

However, there are a handful of minor things that have continually irked me since I arrived here three weeks ago.  Since the majority of these blog posts will likely be about the numerous positive aspects of being Japan, I feel that it’s okay to kretch about a few things.  I’ll start with the first thing that I noticed:

(1) Floor Ledges

With the exception of the way that the sidewalks slope nicely down to street level without requiring  curb cuts, this country is not very alter-abled accessible, at least from what I’ve seen.  In doorways mostly, and in other areas where flooring medium types transition (from linoleum to tile, for example), there is almost always a ledge, like this one:

I have tripped on ledges like these more times that I am proud to admit.  In hotels, restaurants, subway stations, shopping malls, everywhere.  They were hard for me to get used to, even though I have the advantage of being short and not that far from the ground!  I feel a little embarrassed and afraid for tall newcomers to Japan who may not be aware of these trip hazards.  I thankfully haven’t experienced a full-on, sprawling face-plant yet, but I still have many weeks left here, so I won’t rule out the possibility entirely.  Hopefully my newfound wary awareness for doorways will pay off while I’m here and save me from extreme embarrassment!  And speaking of doorways, my next area of complaint is…

 

(2) Doors

My complaining about doors is reserved only for the giant, mammoth heavy doors that are everywhere on the IUJ campus.  The doors in most public places in Tokyo and at restaurants here in Urasa are very cool.  Most places in Japan have these glass slider doors that will either open automatically or quickly at the push of a button.  They are profoundly aesthetically pleasing, energy efficient, and just cool all around.  I haven’t taken any pictures of them yet, but here is an example of said cool door from our hotel in Tokyo:

The IUJ doors are completely different animal.  To be fair, it gets damn cold here in the winter time and the snow piles up very high, so having big thick doors to protect entry ways and keep the warm air indoors makes complete sense to me.  However, those practicalities don’t keep me from hating on the user-unfriendliness of these doors.  They are heavy and gigantic.  The ones in my dorm look like they are made of steel and old heavy glass and I feel like I need 10 times the upper body and core strength that I currently have in order to open and enter though these doors gracefully.

The worst doors on campus are the ones into my office building: made of heavy glass and the handles are in completely the wrong place for the leverage needed to operate them smoothly.  There is not one, but two sets of glass doors to enter this building.  Again, two doors is great for energy conservation, but two heavy, hard-to-open doors are not great if you don’t feel like getting assaulted by a giant chunk of glass while trying to pass through a doorway.  Even if you muscle them open, they will quickly reassert themselves and show you that their closing speed is the same, whether you use your arm and shoulder brawn or not. These doors give me about, oh, one and a half seconds to get myself and my bulky shoulder bag through before they close.  Note: during this sliver of time, it is imperative not to forget about the aforementioned floor ledge trip hazard (see gripe #1 above).  These glass doors always give me nice pat on the rear on the way in, as if to say: “Welcome, we just wanted to make sure that you got in quickly.  Now get to your office and get some work done.”

As if opening and walking through doors wasn’t challenging enough, most entry ways have two sets of two doors.  Easy enough, right?

Not so much.  Notice the “push” signs on the door.  These signs are not to be ignored.  Frequently, the first door on the left will be locked and the door on the right will be unlocked… most of the time (not in the case of the doors in the photo above, but you get my drift).  The unlocked doors are labeled “push” or “pull”.  In the case of the photo above, both of the first doors are “push” doors, but as for the second set of doors, only the one on the left will open to the outside (and the photos is blurry, but it is a “push” door, for your information).  The door on the right is locked.  You can know that, because there is no “push” or “pull” signage on it.

My central thesis for successful door operation here on the IUJ campus without tripping, getting stymied by a lock, or squished is to a.) look where you step, b.) pay attention to which door has the “push” or “pull” sign, c.) become okay with the idea that the doors will probably hit you as they close.  If you ignore the little signs and choose your door based on the logical walking traffic pattern, you’ll likely be met with a locked door and you’ll look like a fool.  I have tried to anticipate and predict which doors will be locked or unlocked by not looking at the signs and I have had fruitless results.  Near as I can tell, there is no rhyme or reason to when doors are unlocked on the right or left, nor is there logic as to when “pull” or “push” signs are used.  What’s most important is to not ignore those signs.  It’s like a mini intelligence mind game.  It is still a guessing game for me and because getting through doors here is awkward enough for me as it is, I’ve defaulted to reading all signs while using doors, so as to avoid moments depicted in this famous Gary Larson cartoon:

 

(3) Excessive packaging for everything

The wonderful philosophy of of Japanese culture that all things should be aesthetically pleasing is very sweet, but it also has a dark side: many goods come wrapped in excessive packaging.  I’ve never seen food covered in so much packaging.  For example, I tried hard to find some rice snacks that came in a bag, but it turned out that they were all individually wrapped:

I bought peaches that not only came with their own little individual styrofoam jackets, but what you don’t see in this picture is that they were place in a styrofoam tray and wrapped in plastic wrap:

Just yesterday, I went to a little cake shop and bought two muffins.  I unwrapped one this morning and discovered this little “stay fresh” pack wrapped up with it.  This came from a specialty shop that sells fresh, homemade goods, and still, so much packaging:

The amount of packaging that I alone have gone through during my short time here is staggering.  I hate to think about how much is wasted on a national level.  Yikes.

You might think that in a country as organized and detail-oriented as Japan that they would have an epic recycling system in place to recycle or reuse all of this packaging some how.  If such a system is in place, I have not had the privilege of seeing it.  Which brings me to my fourth gripe about Japan:

(4) Burnable and unburnable trash

As the above title denotes, there are two disposing options for discarding waste: burnable or not burnable.  The only two items that cannot be burned are glass and cans. 

That means that the following goes in the burnable can: plastic (all of the many kinds), paper, cardboard, aseptic containers, foil, and food scraps.  I shudder to think about all of the dioxin-like compounds and other toxic gases that are released into the air when all. that. plastic. is burned.  Here is a picture of the trash piles in my dorm alone (18 rooms, some single and some family occupancy):

There is ONE pet bottle recycling place on campus next to one vending machine and for some reason pet bottle cap recycling is big here, so there are a few locations around campus for caps.  There is ONE paper recycling location, next to the copier.  I’ve been saving most of my paper recycling and cutting it into note-sized scrap paper and whatever paper I don’t use by the end of my stay here will definitely find its way into the recycling pile.  But all of that burned plastic… ugh.  It hurts my Pacific Northwest nerves to the core to have to throw all that plastic away and not recycle it, especially because I know that the technology exists for that material to be recycled!  But this is not my country, so all I can do is hope that the energy conservation trend that has spread so rampantly across Japan ever since the nuclear plants have been inoperable from the 3/11 earthquake will encourage people to push for better recycling efforts.

 

(5) “Seven Bank” ATMs diagrams

This last complaint is minor, as it has been resolved.  Before I get into detail, please look at this photo:

How would you opt to insert your debit card based on what you see in that picture?  Magnetic stripe up?  Or magnetic stripe down?  To me, it looks like magnetic stripe up.  It looked that way to Micah too.  But no, the proper way to insert your card into the ATM is mag stripe down.  Hurr.

We learned this after a few mishaps with our debit cards: it turns out that Seven Bank (located all over the place in 7-11 convenience stores) is seemingly the only bank that will accept our credit union debit card.  After learning that, we were profoundly frustrated that none of the Seven Bank ATMs would take our damn debit card.  Let me tell you that it’s not at all settling when you are in a rural location in a foreign country that is still very cash-based (read: many places don’t accept credit cards) and your debit card refuses to function.  On a side note, it’s my firm belief that all ATMs worldwide should be of the “swipe-only” variety, and not of the “suck-your-card-into-the-machine” variety.  Every time I’ve used my ATM card here, I take a little leap of faith and say a little prayer: “Please don’t let the machine eat my card”.  So far, so good.  :)

So there are my five gripes about Japan.  I tried hard to think of more than those five, but that’s all that there really is to complain about.  There are hundreds of other great things about this culture, so five gripes out of a few hundred likes is a good ratio I think.  Have you had any funny travel gripes in Japan or elsewhere?

Marichyasana C

Before I get into yoga shop talk, I want to take a moment and thank all of you readers who have been so supportive of the fun parts of my journey in Japan and also the not-so-fun adjustment period part that I experienced when I arrived at my university and Micah left Japan.  There are definitely things to be learned from all struggles in life, but one of the positive things that has been profoundly highlighted for me during my time here is how fortunate I am to have such a great network of friends and family who support me and wish the best for me during my time here.  I sincerely thank you all for your love and support and you motivate me to fully take advantage of the great opportunities that I have here in Japan.

And speaking of opportunities… on to the yoga post!  If you’ve read the previous entries about Japan, you know by now that the weather is here is unforgivingly hot and humid in the summer. The Urasa, Japan area where I am is slightly cooler than Tokyo, but the average temperature here (as Nodakademic noted in her comment a few posts back) is 88 degrees F and 85% humidity.  There isn’t a lot to like about this kind of weather at first… my methods of choice for coping with it when I first arrived were to a.) turn on the AC, b.) take a cold shower, or c.) all of the above.  But after having lived in these weather conditions for two weeks now, I have started to get used to them.  For example, my skin, hair and nails are loving the moisturizing / perspiring affects of the humidity.  Exercising outside feels extra cathartic with all the extra perspiration (so long as you stay plenty hydrated!)  And the best part of all… the heat and humidity is a perfect combination for facilitating a deep yoga practice.  Eugene School of Yoga readers take note: this is the promised land of yoga (#2 behind Mysore India, of course) during the summer months and you would all love practicing here.  I’ve done a couple of full practices here indoors (without air conditioning) and I feel so stretchy and flexible.  So stretchy in fact that today while practicing alone at the university gym, I was able to bind a yoga posture that I’ve been working on and getting assists into for awhile: Marichyasana C!

(No that is not a picture of me, but doesn’t she do Marichyasana C so well?  Thank you, random internet yogini, for your demonstration!)

The side that is pictured is exactly the side that I was able to bind today.  The first (the opposite) side is still a challenge for me to bind, but that’s okay.  I have the heat and humidity of Japan to thank for helping to warm up my torso and shoulders so much that I could do this posture today.  It took two attempts to bind this posture… the second time I thought: “Come on hands, find each other, you can do it…” and then they magically did.  Once they were bound, I held on for dear life and breathed into it for a few breaths and then released it, but I didn’t spring apart, as I normally do when I get an assist in this posture.

I’d also like to note that, unlike my usual attempts at practicing yoga in the afternoon a few hours after having eaten lunch, I didn’t feel like I was carrying a food baby around during this practice.  A highly unusual and exceptional piece of luck indeed, especially for this posture, which as you can see, involves a lot of twisting of the abdominal area and the “organs of elimination”.

Welcome to my yoga practice, second side bound Marichyasana C.  I hope you don’t disappear anytime soon, but if you do, that’s all right too.  :)

Tokyo Day 2: July 4th

We celebrated the 4th of July by getting up and going up for a run, trying our best to simulate the Butte to Butte 10K tradition that happens every 4th of July in Eugene.  We enjoyed our time in Ueno Park the morning before, so we got up again, early in the morning (thank you jet lag!) and went for a run. We ate our delicious Japanese hotel breakfast, hung out at the hotel for some down time, and then took advantage of our early morning rise and headed out to the Tsukiji Fish Market.

The Tsukiji Fish Market is a huge tourist spot in Tokyo.  Prior to the 3/11 earthquake, many tourists exclaimed to other tourists: “you MUST get up early and go see the tuna auction!” It was apparently a sight to see back in the day, but we had read on wikipedia that the tuna auction was closed to tourists after the earthquake.  I don’t really understand how the earthquake has anything to do with needing to close the tuna auction… it seems to me a good excuse for keeping tourists away from where the fish vendors didn’t want them to be.  Maybe, maybe not.  Either way, this sign confirmed that we would not be seeing the infamous tuna auction:

We did not exactly refrain from visiting hall of the public.  But neither did many other people.  So we tried our best to stay out of the way and be aware of our surroundings as we gawked and the sheer volume of fresh fish and seafood and watching the hundreds of workers who were moving, packing, cutting, and otherwise processing all of the fish and seafood for Tokyo.

I learned later that our hotel fish of the day came from here, which was pretty cool.  Here we have whole slabs of tuna, just waiting to be consumed.  NOM.

As is the touristy tradition, we stopped into a local izakaya after taking in the mayhem of the fish market and plopped down to a small sushi bar just outside of the auction.  The chef was friendly and gave us lots of complimentary salads that we didn’t order and that he didn’t charge us for.  We made friends with a couple from Japan who were on a three day weekend holiday (he was pretty blitzed, but he was friendly and shared his beer with us… at 10:30 a.m.!)  We tried out our rudimentary Japanese and the local customers spoke some English with us.  It was great fun and a very Japanese experience.  I wish I had remembered to take pictures inside this place, but there was a huge line of people waiting outside the restaurant (a good sign, I think!) and I didn’t want to make them wait to fill their bar space… plus the people outside looked miserably hot and in need of some sushi and a cold biru.  Here’s a shot from the outside:

After we felt cooled down, we ventured out to the Akihabara of Tokyo and visited Yodabashi Camera.  En route, we popped into a Starbucks for a cold drink and a hit of AC (remember what I said about the “walking tax” in Japan?)  The drinks tasted exactly the same as they did in the United States… franchises are so very interesting like that.  But back to Yodabashi Camera…

…holy crap (the picture shown is of the Ueno store, but it’s just as big as the store in Akihabara).  That whole building is the department store.  The whole thing.  You read correctly.  This place is an eight floor department store, filled with electronic goods for computers, mobile phones stereos, cameras, household appliances, you name it, if it’s powered by electricity or it’s some sort of accessory for an electronic, it’s there at that store.  It was like viewing an entire internet electronics retailer in person, complete with competing loud sounds, televised advertisements, sales people trying to get you to buy their mobile phone contract, all in Japanese.  I’m learning that this is a theme of being in Japan: wanting to flee in order to prevent mental overstimulation, yet not being able to just for the sheer curiosity and novelty that is to be absorbed from the experience.  I believe that this is an extension of the duality of cultures in Japan and the phenomenon has definitely infiltrated my mind as well.  :)

This link is great… it’s a video of Micah trying out noise canceling head phones in the loudest most appropriate environment to do so:

Micah in Yodabashi Camera

We stayed there for three hours (did I mention that there was free AC?), just gazing at the sheer amount of different and fun things   I tried to get a pre-paid mobile phone plan, but since I’m not staying in Japan for 3 months, it is nearly impossible and perhaps too difficult to get a plan.  The three giant mobile companies here have great names: “Soft Bank”, “Docomo”, and “Au” (amusing, yes?)  At hour 2.5in Yodabashi, I plopped down into a shiatsu massage chair and closed my eyes.  Thank you, electronics, for facilitating relaxation.  Before we left, I purchased a hair dryer, a hair straitening iron, and a USB drive (I couldn’t find mine at home and I paid through the nose for it at this place… $15 for a 4GB USB drive… ouch).  Here is a picture of the box that the hair dryer came in, there is some great Engrish on there:

We were told that the food courts at the top of department stores were awesome and this department store did not disappoint.  We were finally able to order a cold noodle lunch.  We were sat next to an older salary man and what looked like to be his assistant (who looked profoundly bored and sad while he was writing dates in a calendar and listening to his older counter part rattle of details).  Dinner later that night was somewhat uneventful… we tried to pick a good place, but we were tired and overwhelmed, so we ended up eating dinner in a smoky and overpriced izakaya.  My food came out late and I was pissed off in general that no one could seemingly go out and eat dinner at a restaurant anywhere in Tokyo without involuntarily inhaling second hand cigarette smoke.  Yuck.  Bed time for the cranky, jet-lagged traveler!

Transition from Tokyo to Urasa

Disclaimer: this post is full of observations and experiences that I did not anticipate to be as profoundly emotionally distraughtful as they turned out to be when I first came to my summer job at a university in Japan.  The emotions that were involved with relocating to a rural area in a different country and separating my life physically from my spouse proved to be astonishingly difficult for me; I almost feel as if I’m reading about someone else’s experience when I read this post.  Consider yourself forewarned that this might be full of “over-shares”, or personal information that you may or may not want have wanted to ever know about me.  I don’t mind if you read it, but I want you to be informed that the content is heavy.  I ultimately decided that writing about this transition would be relevant for me for reflection, useful to anyone else who might be in a similar situation, and good for comparison later on during my time in Japan.  There was definitely some personal growth that happened during the week that this post was written about, but it wasn’t without a lot of struggle, I tell you what.

July 6th: We went shopping for gifts and Micah’s shoes, bought our tickets for the train, rode the shinkansen (bullet train) to Urasa Station (we were two of five people that got off the train).  Micah was in train nerd heaven before, during, and after our train ride.  By the way, one of my colleagues drove from Tokyo to IUJ and it took her about 4-5 hours.  We arrived from Tokyo to Urasa on the Shinkansen in a little over an hour.  Amazing.

We were picked up by some of the full-time staff at IUJ and shuttled to the grocery store so that we could cook food for ourselves that night (surprise!)  All of the items in the store were in Japanese and the store didn’t take credit cards (and we had limited cash from the ATM fiasco the night before).  We arrived at IUJ.  Micah and I were taken to my spacious and fully-accommodated dorm and then I was shown my office.  I was given a faculty orientation packet and all of the keys to the spaces on campus that I would need.  Such precise levels of organization!  I even had a sign on my office door!  I got invited to a casual social gathering that evening and I intended on making an appearance, despite feeling overwhelmed.  But the overwhelmedness caught up with me when I went back to the dorm… and thus commenced the anxiety attack that lasted for the next two days.  Boy howdy.

All these feelings came up and out: I felt extremely isolated, extremely out of place, and very guilty that Micah would have to leave in a few days and that I had opted to live apart from him for this length of time, for this personal and professional experience.  I felt scared.  I felt selfish.  I was confused because everyone said that I would love it here, but I knew nothing about the surrounding area, the faculty, the students, the campus, and so it was hard to contextualize anything about it as positive.  I could only see the experience as abandoning my husband and I felt terrible about it.

I felt so conflicted because I had actively sought out this experience to teach English abroad for years and now and I had anticipated it with such enthusiasm (fueled by my own expectations and also the build up that everyone had given me about Japan).  I was here in Japan and all I could think of was how awful I was for leaving my spouse for a new life that I knew nothing about and I felt bad that I would put him through so much hardship and make him accountable for all of our shared responsibility back home.  I did not anticipate that I would be affected so much by I all of this, but I was and it was profound.  Unlike my usual MO of dealing with stressful situations, I couldn’t shake the feeing, and I couldn’t snap out of it.  It scared me.  Micah made dinner in the new apartment and I tried to unpack and not cry.  I had zero appetite at dinner.  I couldn’t eat anything.  I tried to convince him that since I couldn’t deal, that I should just pack up my stuff and leave with him on the train the next day.  I should forget about this silly living/working in Japan business.  He wasn’t having it.  He reminded me that vacation time was over and work time was just beginning.  (This was also the first day of “ladies holiday” as we call it in yoga, so that probably wasn’t helping.) He set up a screen saver slide show on my laptop that toggled my pictures in my iPhoto library, to remind me of home and make my new space more homey.  All I could do was cry at every photo of family / friends / pets and think of how far away from them I was and why the heck did I leave such a great life and so many people who love and support me?  I felt so bad that I wasn’t hungry because he made us a delicious noodle dish with tofu and vegetables.  All I could do was eat a few bites of noodle, pass out and go to sleep; it was the only thing that felt right about that evening.

 

July 7th: I woke up all sad and uncomfortable from sharing a twin bed.  I had slept for almost 12 hours, but I didn’t want to get out of bed and face reality.  I mentally willed myself to get out of bed and stand up and the first thing I did was cry.  Micah made me breakfast and I put myself in the shower and went to the first work meeting.  I met my nice coworkers.  Micah went on a run while I was gone and he was bursting with excitement and photos at all of the cool sights that he saw along the way.  I (not surprisingly at this point) got all teary eyed and waited for him to rinse of the humidity lather before we went on a faculty group shopping trip to buy things at the grocery store, drug store, and 100 yen store.

Grocery shopping is already somewhat of an overwhelming task for me back home, even when I can read all of the words in English, even when I know the store layout, even when I have a list (big or small), even when I’ve eaten on a normal schedule, and even when I’m not in an emotionally distraught space.  I couldn’t read anything at any of the stores; everything was in Japanese (not surprising).  The grocery didn’t have everything that I wanted.  I had to have my new friend/coworker, who is a Japanese national, translate practically everything.  I was happy to have made a new friend in her and I felt bad to be asking her so many questions, but she didn’t seem to mind too much.

Through the entire evening, I was still anxious that Micah was leaving the next day and completely overwhelmed by the newness of everything.  Micah made dinner again and I could hardly eat more than a bite or two.  I cried, and cried, and cried.  Anytime that we weren’t in the company of other people, I did one of two things: a.) breathed heavily from anxiety that he was leaving,  b.) stared off into distracted space, wondering what the hell was wrong with me and how I was going to cope with all this for 8 weeks plus traveling later or c.) cried my face off because Micah was leaving.  Embarrassing, but true.  Man.  I am still so very surprised by my own level of anxiety and sadness around Micah’s departure.  I anticipated that it would be difficult, but no where near this difficult, nor did I think that I would have such a strong, uncontrollable, visceral response to this whole experience.

 

July 8th: Micah’s plane was scheduled to leave Tokyo at 3:30 p.m. this day.  I said goodbye to him in the dorm apartment because I had a meeting that started before he had to depart on the IUJ bus to get to the train station.  As I’m getting ready for work, I learned that my mother was going in for unexpected emergency surgery to remove her ruptured appendix.  I sent an email to my step-dad, wishing her well through her surgery.  More crying (surprising, I know), I love yous, and goodbyes were exchanged and finally I closed the door and walked to my meeting.  God that was an awful morning.

I’m glad that I had new things to learn in a work meeting and try to comprehend the extremely organized curriculum to take my mind off of things.  Doing this gave me the sense of normalcy that I had been craving and I couldn’t negotiate when Micah was in the apartment.  I learned more about my new teaching job and was pleased to learn that everything in this program is extremely well-organized and pedagogically legit.  I watched the clock and at the time when I knew that Micah was on the train, I felt less sad.  When I found out later that he was boarding the plane, I felt even better.  Somehow having him here and knowing that I was about to leave him and do something else without him made everything so difficult.  Now that I knew he was safely on his way, I could relax a little bit and regain some of my normal mental functioning.  Midway through the meeting, I witnessed my first big giant thunderstorm here in the valley, which was awesomely loud and later during a break I ran back to my dorm to unplug my laptop, for fear that the electrical storm would destroy the power supply to my one and only communication medium for back home.

I finally figured out my IUJ email account credentials and got on wireless.  I checked my email and learned that my mother was out of surgery and doing well.  WHEW.  I started to feel relieved and less anxious for the first time in two days.  I went back to the apartment and finally had the appetite to eat a substantial meal.  I went on a bike ride around the local area and took pictures.

I began to realize that I’m staying in a beautiful place and just how fortunate I really am to be here.  Some coworkers invited me to play tennis, so I joined them after my bike ride.  I ate dinner in the university cafeteria for the first time.   Slept well.

July 9th: I got a chance to Skype with my mother in the hospital and it was great to hear her voice and see her.  Micah make it home safely, after driving several miles home and talking with lots of family on the way home.  Through more meetings, I continued to learn more about and love my new job and my new coworkers.  After a week of meetings, IUJ took the faculty out to a local Japanese restaurant and we had an all-faculty dinner.  It was a great way to get to know the people that I’ll be working with for the next eight weeks better.  I declined an invitation to “the Paramount”, a local dive izakaya and night club, but I did go and play billiards in one of the student dormitories with some of the instructors and also meet some of the students.  Slept well.

July 10th: my first Sunday and non-work day alone in the dorm.  I did a full yoga practice with the patio doors open.  The heat and humidity provided an opportunity for deep, cleansing asana and it felt great and very grounding.  I made some breakfast: white bread toast (more griping about the bread offerings in this country later) with whipped peanut butter and jam, yogurt, and half a peach.  I followed my instinct to CLEAN ALL THE THINGS on Sunday and cleaned my bathroom, kitchen sink, desk and table, and vacuumed and scrubbed the floors… in 25 minutes (hooray for small spaces!)  I did laundry at the coin-op machines in my dorm.  Hung up some of the laundry to dry outside on my balcony (Japanese-style).  I got hungry and made home-made sushi.  I started to enjoy and relish my alone time.  I spoke with my girlfriends in Oregon on Skype who were celebrating a bachelorette party that weekend.

I Skype chatted with Micah and learned that he came down with intestinal issues and a fever… probably more bad seafood on the airplane.  I felt helpless and awful that I couldn’t be with him when he was sick.  I learned that my mom was still recovering in the hospital, as anticipated.  I went into my office for an hour to read through all of the materials and note any questions that I had for our meeting the next day.  The office was sweltering hot and I didn’t have the Japanese language skills to ask the “energy center” to please turn on the AC (I forgot to look in the back of my faculty packet… all of the keywords and phrases to do that are in there, whoops).  I left my office, came home, and went for a bike ride to Urasa to “the Cupid” grocery store.  I bought enough breakfast items for the week (because the cafeteria on campus only serves lunch and dinner) and a few more meal items.  Some Japanese people giggled at me when I tried to ask if a product was salt or sugar.  I met an IUJ student from Malaysia and her family outside the store who asked me if I was a visiting instructor.  The bike ride back to IUJ was only 2.5 miles or so, but it was a sweaty, uphill bike ride home.  I relished the fact that I had no other choice other than to exercise to get my groceries (because the university bus doesn’t run on Sundays).   I uploaded the photos from the trip thus far, wrote a blog post, and went to bed. Slept well.

So that was the first half of my first week at IUJ.  It was difficult and challenging, but ultimately I am really loving it here and really enjoying the place more and more.  I can’t wait to share more experiences about this place.

I also feel that it’s essential to mention that Micah in no way guilted me, manipulated me, or intentionally made me feel bad about leaving.  All of my guilty feelings were self-inflicted and if anything, he did everything he could to remind me of why I was doing this, how great of an experience it would be, and how supportive he was of my being here.  I have truly arrived as a human being to have him as a spouse, which of course makes it even more difficult to be away from him.  When he returns, it is my hope that we have a lot of fun together traveling in Japan.

Tokyo Day 3: July 5th

Micah, being the train enthusiast that he is, badly wanted to see Tokyo Station, one of the largest and oldest train stations in the world.  We got on the JR (Japan Rail) Yamanote line; a train route that runs in a big circle through the center of Tokyo.

The Yamanote line is unique in that it is an above ground train.  Traveling above ground is a nice way to see a city visually when you are traveling in a new place and you are used to taking the underground train and popping up from portal A to portal B without any context for what sites were in between.

Unfortunately, Tokyo Station was covered in plastic and scaffolding, and so Micah was disappointed that he was unable to see the station in all its beautiful glory.  We surmised that it might have been under repair because of the 3/11 earthquake; most of the building is brick.  Here is a shot of it undercover and who knows, maybe we’ll get to see it again in September.

The Imperial Palace was a short walk from Tokyo Station, so we braved the ever oppressive heat and humidity and enjoyed a change in the size of the streets: these streets were wider, with giant sidewalks.  We saw this map and I wondered if it was referring to people who are homeless or people who were made homeless by the 3/11 earthquake.

Most of the Imperial Palace is closed to visitors, so we walked slowly from shady spot to shady spot and had a look at the outside of the palace.  There were very few tourists around and I snapped a few pictures.  I was impressed by the solar panels on the palace and I knew that my mom would be so excited to see those.

Since there wasn’t much to do but stand in the heat and be miserable, we made our way back to Tokyo Station and took the subway to Harajuku.  We made a stop at the Meiji Jingu Shrine, a famous Shinto shrine in Shibuya, which is one of the most highly regarded, government-supported shrines in Japan.  It was a lovely respite from the heat and from the noise of the city.

We walked for quite awhile around the grounds and the gardens at the shrine.   They were so peaceful and lovely.

When we finally found the shrine, we participated in the hand washing ritual.

Some of the shrine was being restored, but we still got to see it.

We got to see prayer cards that people wrote in hopes for various aspects of peace for themselves or others.

What’s really sad about this place is that the original buildings were destroyed in the Japanese air-raids during WWII.  As beautiful and peaceful as it is, it’s sad to think that it had to be rebuilt.

When we were finished with at the shrine, we took a long walk back through the park to Harajuku, an area of Tokyo which is famous for edgy fashion, school kids, cosplayers, and in Kat’s words “disaffected youth”, but we didn’t see many of them.  We did see many new apartments and buildings being built… perhaps Gwen Stefani has changed this area from edgy to trendy.

We finally sat down for some lunch at an izakaya and watched fashionistas and school kids walk past, but unfortunately no cosplayers (supposedly that happens on Sunday and we missed it… oh well).

We people watched at Harajuku for the longest time and then we made our way back.  En route, I was feeling adventurous with my beverage choice and I finally gave in to curiosity and selected a “POCARI SWEAT”.

It is a surprisingly refreshing electrolyte replacement drink, not too sweet, and with a slight lemon flavor.  I really enjoyed it, despite its funny, unappealing name.

On our last night in Tokyo, we had the privilege of meeting up with some of my former students from the UO in Tokyo!  I had these students in my class in the fall of 2009 and I hadn’t seen many of them in almost a year.  It was a real treat to see them and I was so happy that they could all take time out of their busy schedules to meet us for dinner.  They organized a dinner at an izakaya and I got to hear all about their impending graduation, their thesis writing, and their new jobs that they just secured, but that they won’t start until almost 18 months from now.  One will go to work for IBM, the other will be a newscaster for a Japan TV network, and two others are taking their tests and preparing to be teachers.  I’m immensely proud of them and we really enjoyed having dinner with them.  We even tried raw chicken, which I swore before I came to Japan that I would never try it.  But I did and it was delicious… it tasted like sashimi.

 

The evening ended somewhat unfortunately: we didn’t have enough cash to cover our portion of the bill, which we knew going into the evening.  Japan is a very cashed-based economy still, so using a credit card to pay wasn’t an option.  But no problem, we can get money out of an ATM, right?  Wrong.  Even though we had gotten money out of an ATM two days prior, none of the ATMs would accept our cards (and yes we had informed them that we would be traveling internationally).  We tried several different ATMs, called our bank, but there was no record of any problem on their end.  Grrrrrr.  We later realized that only “Seven-bank” ATMs (in connection with Seven-11 convenience stores) would take our ATM cards for some reason.  I need to mail one student some cash in the mail still, but the special envelope that I need to send cash is not available at the student store here at the university, only from the post office in Urasa (which I have been too scheduled at work to get to before they close, arg).  We even had to borrow money for train fare ($2.00 or so) from another student to get home on the last train of the evening and we felt so terrible for having to do this.  But they were very understanding of the situation and they had similar experiences during their time in Eugene.  I really need to get into town and send that money in the mail…

Tokyo Day 1: July 3rd

Our first morning in Tokyo had an early start; we were both wide awake at 4:30 a.m.  After trying to go back to sleep, we finally gave up and decided to go on a walk through Ueno Park.  Not without first acquiring some coffee first…

 

Vending machines are everywhere in Japan.  They sell alcoholic and non-alcoholic (seriously!) cold drinks year-round and hot drinks during the colder months.  Seeing as to how it is unbearably hot in the summer here, Micah and I estimated that the “walking tax” in Tokyo was about 240 yen (about $2.50) per hour, the total estimated cost for two cold beverages, needed about once an hour.  There are dozens of novel-to-foreigners brands of cold coffee in a can, including but not limited to Tully’s, Black Wonda, Glacier, and a few other gems.  These cans can also be heated up in the winter months… I found that out by grabbing a can of hot coffee in a convenience store, thinking that it was the cold variety.

 

 

So enough about coffee… we obtained some through our first Japanese vending machine experience and it was fun, to make a long story short.  We wandered across the giant footbridge at Ueno Station and into the park.   I was feeling extremely winded just walking up the stairs and I was shocked as to how affected I was by airplane travel / jet lag / humidity / heat.  The day previous, I had taken a 2.5 mile run in Eugene with no problems, but on my first day in Tokyo, I felt like I had JELL-O legs and like I hadn’t done any cardiovascular exercise in months.

 

 

It was 5:30 a.m. on a Saturday morning and even though the streets were full of people the night before, there were plenty of people getting their exercise in before the heat and humidity got really miserable.  It was already suffocatingly hot and humid at 5:30 a.m. in my northwestern United States perspective and I was impressed that people were dedicated enough to get their walking / running / tai chi / baseball game with friends in at such an early hour and on a weekend.

 

 

 

We saw all sorts of people in the park, including homeless guys sleeping neatly on flattened cardboard (they were dressed so nicely though that it made me wonder if they just had partied too hard on Friday night and missed the last train).  Unlike homeless people in Eugene, I did not feel threatened by them, for some strange reason.  Perhaps it was because they didn’t try to engage in conversation, like so many homeless people in Eugene do.  Micah wondered if the homeless population in Tokyo had increased since the tsunami destroyed so many homes in Sendai in March.

 

 

Ueno Park treated us to so many lovely sights, including shrines, temples (and by the way, I’m not sure how to tell the difference between those two things yet), new and interesting signs, and a lovely pond.

 

 

We were both so impressed with the city and the culture and we hadn’t even been there for 24 hours.  I remember thinking “this is a great culture… I am so lucky that I get to stay here for 2.5 months… I could really see us living here, having jobs here, raising children here for a year or so…” (infatuation culture shock phase 1 anyone?!)

We finished our walk in time for our 7:00 a.m. Japanese style breakfast back at the hotel.

 

I’ll admit that I was slightly nervous about whether Micah would like “Japanese breakfast” before we got to the hotel restaurant, even though I read about it beforehand and it seemed great.  It was most definitely great, even by Micah’s non-breakfast-person standards. It was hard for us to locate breakfast restaurants in Tokyo, so I’m glad I opted for the Japanese breakfast included option when I booked the hotel.  We each got a bowl of rice (Micah was always served a larger bowl of rice than I was, WHAT IS THAT ABOUT?!), miso soup, some Japanese-style pickles, natto (fermented soy beans) and a bowl with potato salad, a slice of ham, cucumbers, and tomatoes (?).  The little old lady who was in charge of serving then brought us a fresh catch of grilled fish from the Tsukiji Fish Market in Tokyo, green tea, and finally coffee.  We joked that we had to earn our coffee by finishing our breakfast first.  Me being the breakfast fiend that I am, I was extremely pleased and satisfied by this tasty first morning meal in Tokyo.

 

After breakfast, we went back to our room for down time (read: a cold shower and air conditioning) and then ventured out into Ueno to the open air market.  There were tons of people out and about, doing their food shopping for the week or just shopping in general.

We later moved our shopping endeavors indoors… browsing would be a better word for what we did.  There were so many new and interesting products, signs, and cultural differences to note about shopping and we didn’t buy much.  It was satisfying enough to be immersed in the experience.

Many stores will have Japanese women who, at different intervals and for their different stores, will deliver invitational messages for you to come and shop at their stores in this pinched, high-pitched tone.  I wanted to do the opposite of come and shop at the store after hearing all of the screeching, but it was an interesting cultural difference for sure.  I did end up buying a cute HOMEWORK OKAY! stamp and an ink pad.  Japanese stationary stores are out of control stocked with cute, novel things.  I wanted to flee out of visual exhaustion and yet I was entranced with all the little things to look at.  I felt weird taking pictures at indoor stores, so I have nothing to show for this experience… I’ll try to take some video of the loud shop girls later… that is an experience that is not to be undocumented, nor missed.

I completely agreed with Micah when he noted during our shopping outing that “the Japanese win at capitalism”.  The sheer number of different kinds of products in all of the stores is amazing.  I now understand why so many of my Asian students go shopping on the weekends, but now I feel sorry for them too, because the shopping experience in Japan is so much more varied and interesting than it is in the United States.  But perhaps they feel differently and they are satisfied by American consumer availability… I should ask them. After a few hours of shop browsing, we went back to the hotel again (you can’t resist the cold showers and AC exposure in this kind of heat, or at least we couldn’t).

After shop/browsing, we came back again for another dose of a cold showers/ angry birds playing / air conditioning.  We felt the need to balance the intake of so much visual / aural stimulus in Tokyo with a some brain off time, especially so early on in our trip.  We had plans to go out and get some dinner somewhere, but we unfortunately both got sick.  Probably the cooked shrimp salad that Delta served us… I did have second thoughts before I put that in my mouth, but I ate it anyway.  Whoops.  Probably not the best decision in retrospect.  I woke up from a nap at 5:00 p.m. with some serious tummy grumbles and a fever and thought that I might vomit, but I never did, thankfully.  I did however get very scared / irritated that I had only been in the country for one day and I got sick.  I felt like a broken traveler.  I thought: “how can I ever travel to any other place in the world if I just get sick on the first day, HERE in Japan, where the food and water is generally considered safe?”  It was at that point that I also realized that I forgot to pack probiotics and I was even more frustrated with myself.  I was so uncomfortable, so I just laid down and did some deep yoga breathing to deal with the discomfort of the tummy grumbles and fever and guess what, it worked.  I fell asleep for 12 hours and felt like my normal self the next day when I woke up, as did Micah.

In the next post: we become early-morning Tokyo exercise people!

Here in Japan

After a few months of planning, an endless number of preparation tasks, and a lot of anticipation, we are finally here in Tokyo.  Just as everyone said I would, I have fallen in love with this place.  Not without first experiencing a few apprehensive moments, but all in all, this place is great.

Our journey started in the morning of Friday, July 1st.  The night before, our friends threw us a going away party, complete with Americano staples such as hot dogs and s’mores (thanks you guys!).  We stayed up past midnight the night before making our final packing adjustments and I intended on sleeping in until 7:00 a.m. the next morning at least, but the sun had other plans: it came gleaming through our window at 6:00 a.m.  I got up and went for a short run along the Willamette River path to try to clear my nervous head and body of unnecessary stress and that helped a lot.  Micah mowed the lawn.  It was a lovely final day of summer for me to experience in Eugene; I’m so thankful to call such a beautiful place home.  I would be lying if I said that I wasn’t sad about leaving Eugene that morning, but I tried to remind myself of what great opportunity and new beautiful place was in store for me somewhere else.

We drove up to Portland, met my mom and step dad at my grandma’s house and left the car at my grandma’s.  My mom and step dad drove us to PDX and we said our goodbyes:

When we got into the airport, the first of three emotional moments for me occurred in the course of getting to Tokyo.  Emotional moment #1 was triggered by feeling overwhelmed by the check-in process at the airport.  I think that I was worried about my suitcase being over the weight limit (even though I weighed in the night before), having trouble checking in, missing our flight, having trouble at security, etc.  As a last minute plan change, Micah convinced me to check the big, crushingly heavy bag (2 suitcases were allowed to be checked for free) that I intended on carrying on, so I was nervous about making sure that I had taken all of the essentials out of that bag that I needed on the flight (which I did).  I think I was nervous / panicked / anticipating that there would be big lines during holiday weekend travel and hiccups that were out of my control that would delay or prevent us from getting on our flight smoothly.  Air travel can be such a pain in the ass these days, but as it turns out, we were fortunate and none of the worst case scenarios happened and it all worked out.  Once we got through security and to our gate, I felt a huge sense of relief that we had hurdled over those potential obstacles without any pain and suffering.

We boarded our plane on time and left at 2:20 p.m. (PST) with no hiccups.  Except for a surprise power failure in the plane as we backed out (probably a communication break down between the ground crew and pilots), all went swimmingly well on the flight.  Emotional moment #2 was triggered by the funniest thing: a picture of an outdoor cat tunnel in the Sky Mall catalog (so that indoor pets can experience outside without running away, etc.  It made me think of my pets and I got so sad that Lucky and Jeeves might not understand why Micah is the only one to come back next week and that maybe I’ve abandoned them.  I hope to “talk” to them on Skype to convince them that I haven’t left them.  I also got sad that Micah would be on this same flight in a week and that we would have to spend so much time apart, so I had a little crymax in my seat and then tried to focus on the fun that we’re going to have in the next week (which is challenging to imagine when you’ve never been to the place where you’re going, so you have to trust everyone else who has said so many positive things about the new place to which you are traveling to).

But back to the flight… it was great.  I’ve heard nothing but negative things about Delta, but we had a great experience on our economy class flight.  A decent amount of space, frequent and delicious (by airplane food standards) food and drinks were served, no excessive, obnoxious, and loud announcements, mostly clean bathrooms, and incredibly friendly flight attendants.  There was plenty of space to get up and walk around once an hour or so.  The flight was 9 hours and change and I wish that I had been able to sleep more during the sanction airplane “blackout” time, but alas.  I filed a “compliment” report on their website because I was that impressed with the experience.

We landed on July 2nd at 5:30 p.m. (we lost a day!)  We got off the plane and slowly, carefully, without any sense of urgency, navigated the Narita airport.  We made it through immigration, baggage claim, had our first experiences with Japanese toilets (more on those later!), and went through customs.  We found the luggage shipping area and negotiated for my big suitcase to be delivered to the university where I’ll be working in Japan.  Micah bought us train tickets on the Keisei Skyliner train, which took us from the airport to Ueno station, which is a 5 minute from where our hotel is.  We watched the seats being rotated from one direction to the other (the airport is the end of the line).  We got on the immaculate train (which left promptly at 6:09 p.m.) and got excited as the rice fields around the Narita airport slowly turned into the city of Tokyo.  It was thrilling at first, and then I got a little motion sick and a very different, infrequent, and curious headache in my left eye brow area that was curable by closing my eyes.

We arrived at Ueno station and Micah navigated us with his data services on a GPS to our hotel.  We walked through the hustle and bustle at Ueno station on a Saturday night and it was awesome and disorienting.  We found our hotel, and even though it was supposed to be non-smoking, it still smelled faintly of smoke.  This is where emotional moment #3 happened: I had been up and awake for almost 24 hours with no sleep, a lot of changes, and I was tired and cranky.  We still had to go get something to eat before we could crash for the night.  I remember feeling weird saying things like “excuse me” when navigating crowds… shouldn’t I be speaking Japanese?  But I’m American, so it’s okay to speak English, right?  We dropped our heavy stuff down, I asked for a chiropractic back adjustment, and we were on our way to finding an izakaya (a Japanese style pub).

There was an izakaya right down the street from us.  We ate delicious pork, chicken, veggies, and tofu.  Such friendly waitstaff and people at the restaurant.  We checked our a local convenience store (which are awesome and of slightly higher quality than what you’d expect of a convenience store in the USA).  We got some cold beverages and then walked back to our hotel, where we crashed hard.  Being up for almost 24 hours straight is challenging for sure.

We slept well that night, but we were wide awake at 5:00 a.m. (12:00 noon-ish).  We did an early morning exploration of the Ueno area, which I’ll tell you all about later!

Needless to say, having not even been here for 24 hours, here are my first impressions of Japan:

1. It is impeccably clean (you were right, James!)

2. The brilliance of this culture is in the details.  They have thought of everything (especially with regards to service culture).

3. The food is delicious (you were right, everyone!)

4. The people are friendly, even to weary-looking foreigners who barely speak Japanese (you were right, everyone!)

5. No one was embellishing on the fact that it’s hot and humid here in the summer.

6. It’s completely possible to navigate Tokyo if you have zero to little Japanese language grasp.

7. Vending machines are everywhere and they serve delicious drinks (you were right, Kat!)

8. I love this place and I would totally live here more long term someday.

9. Having a phone here would be really convenient.  We’re off to go research that for me today.

10. It seems that people in Tokyo whisper a lot when they are talking… very interesting.

Pre-departure musings: Japan

As many of you may know by now, I landed a job teaching English in Japan!  Really!  And I’ll be leaving soon for this epic journey!  Woo hoo!  And holy crap!

So many people have been so incredibly supportive of this opportunity that I have: friends, colleagues, family, all of them.  Many of them have asked the same questions, so I will write this post in an FAQ format, so as to cover all the bases.

Congrats!  How did you get this job?

All of this madness started back in January of 2011 when I began asking around amongst the teachers that I work with about potential English teaching job opportunities abroad.  Several of the people I talked with at my university had some great connections and leads on jobs in places where they had worked in the past or that they had heard good things about.  One colleague told me about a university in a rural area of Japan that she worked at for three years and that she absolutely loved.  I emailed about the opportunity in Japan, applied, attempted to travel to Japan on a whim with Micah to interview in March (and then because of the tsunami and the nuclear uncertainty at Fukushima, I canceled those plans and interviewed over Skype instead), waited about a month, and in April I got the good news: a contract to teach English in Japan was offered to me for the summer of 2011.  Part of me is still shocked that this opportunity is ACTUALLY happening… and I’m but a few days from my departure date.  It’s very exciting to say the very least!

Where will you teach English?  What kind of classes will you teach?

“Where” is a good question and somewhat difficult question to answer!  I will be located in NW Japan, in Niigata prefecture, at the International University of Japan (click on the link for a Google map image).  As you can see on the Google map, it is a *very* rural area.  So rural in fact that I, nor my friends who have lived in Japan are able to identify a town or a city where this university is located.  It is close to the Urasa train stop on the Japan Railway system.  I’m told that the university is located in the middle of rice fields, and that the Japanese Alps rise up all around the area.  Opportunities for eating locally made soba, hiking, jogging, biking, and other outdoor activities abound.  To be honest, the way that people who have been there describe it, this place sounds like heaven-on-Earth-paradise to be honest and I’m excited to confirm that.  :)

“What” is a much easier question to answer.  The program that I’ll be teaching in is an Intensive English Program, similar to the program that I teach in now at the UO.  The program in Japan is projected to have about 75 students; the program that I teach in at the UO is projecting numbers of 650 students (a very new high number) in the fall.  Several of the students in Japan will be special groups of professionals who are coming to learn English in Japan.  I’m told that some of the students will be from the International Monetary Fund.  The curriculum is already set, so I won’t have to reinvent the wheel too much, which is great.

Additionally, there are four of us who are new instructors to the IEP program in Japan and seven returning instructors from summers past.  They are from the United States, the UK, Canada, and Japan.  I’m looking forward to learning the ropes from the veteran instructors and meeting the new ones as well.

Will you still be able to work at your regular job at the UO in the fall?

Hopefully, yes.  The enrollment for the program that I teach in at the UO is at a record breaking high and I’ve been told that that there will likely be room for me to teach.  However, I am an adjunct instructor at the UO, which means I work on a term-by-term contract basis.  Leaving for the summer was easy; all I had to do was not agree to work summer term.  It is my intended plan to continue teaching at the UO in the fall 2011.

Will Micah go with you?

Yes!  Micah will get to come with me for the first week of my time in Japan (Tokyo and Niigata) and he will also come back and travel with me for two and a half weeks when my contract ends at the beginning of September.  We had the good fortune of being able to redeem frequent flier miles for his ticket in July, essentially making his ticket FREE.  More about our travel plans (what plans?) in September later!  But seriously, we don’t have any plans yet… :)

Wow, you must be so excited!

I really, Really, REALLY am excited about this!  Living and working abroad is a huge life goal of mine that I was becoming unsure that I would ever have an opportunity to do.  Most English teaching jobs in my field require that you commit for a 6 month, 1 year or 2 year contract.  That length of time away from Micah is a deal breaker for me.  I don’t want to have a long distance relationship with my husband.  And he, unfortunately, is not able to take that much time away from his own career, nor does he want to for reasons that I completely understand.  So when this opportunity for a 8 week teaching contract in Japan came up, I jumped.  Teaching abroad is not only a huge life goal of mine, it’s also very good career experience.  I feel so unbelievably fortunate that I’ve come across such a great opportunity.  

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What I’m apprehensive about

Preparations

People have not been asking me if I’m nervous, hence the nerdy HTML (“end FAQ”) code above.  But let me tell you, for the past 3 weeks, I have been busy making preparations, applying for my travel visa in person in Portland, running errands in town, making pages and Google docs of to-do lists, checking off the items on the to do lists, and yet more things keep popping up.  At the risk of sounding whiny, it’s been exhausting, involved, and neurotic preparing for this trip.  I know why I’ve been feeling this way: this is my first trip where I have to take care of ALL of the details or no one else will.  Also, I’m traveling to a rural area, so if I need to buy a skirt or something, it may or may not be available.  I’ve been spending a lot of money while making these preparations, which also stresses me out.  I’m certain that it will all work out in the end; that I will bring more than I need and I will forget one or two essentials, but I know that I’ll be able to get them if I need them (hopefully I’ll remember that I don’t have them while I’m in Tokyo for the first few days!)  I did not anticipate being so neurotic in preparing for this trip and it kind of took me by surprise.  I hope that the more I travel, the easier this process will get.

Being away from Micah

This is the hardest part by far.  Micah and I  have had the great fortune of not spending more than 3 weeks apart from one another in the nearly 12 years that we’ve spent together.  That time spent away from each other was 10 years ago in 2001, when I studied abroad in Mexico for 6 weeks; he came and visited me halfway through my time there on a whim visit.  :)   We’ve anticipated this 8 week absence away from each other and he’s been so sweet and understanding about why going to Japan is a great professional opportunity, that it’s a huge life goal of mine, and he is going to come with me at the beginning and end of the trip so that we can travel together.  He’s made lots of fun summer plans for himself and he will surely not be without people to hang out with or activities to do (not to mention the company of Lucky and the kitties).  But it will be different and challenging to not share  a life together in person, as we are so accustomed to doing.  I’m sure that we’ll learn a lot from this experience and maybe even have a difficult reintegration period, once we are accustomed to living individual lives, haha!

I especially feel bad about not participating in shared responsibilities that we have together, knowing that he’ll have to maintain the house, feed the pets, work on the house, get groceries, do laundry, clean the house, make food, and otherwise do all the things that we normally share the burden of together.  But those of you who know Micah know that he is a highly capable individual and he’ll definitely manage to do all these things solo.  And he can always complain to me that there are too many things to do on Skype!  More about Skype and how telecommunications in the 21st century have improved tremendously since 2001 and how awesome it is that we can (hopefully?) talk for FREE!

Tying up loose ends

There are a zillion to tie up.  Thank goodness for to-do lists, lest those endless tasks swim around in my head, wreak havoc on my mind, and render me mentally useless.

The unknown

This is precisely one of the reasons that I’ve always wanted to live in another culture: having no idea what to expect and having to navigate a new place, with an unfamiliar language, transportation system, a new city, the differentness of it all.  This is simultaneously enthralling and terrifying.  :)

Maintaining a yoga practice

Will I have time / energy to maintain my daily yoga practice?  Full daily practice takes me about 100 minutes to do.  Should I bring my yoga mat?  Can I maintain a partial yoga practice and still reap the mental / physical benefits that I’m so accustomed to as a result of practicing yoga?  Will I be able to take advantage of the heat and humidity for good, deep asana?  Not sure.  But that brings me to my next apprehensive thought…

The heat and humidity

I’ve been given very clear instructions to pack for Japanese summers, which are high in heat and humidity.  Oregon generally has warm summers with very little humidity.  Last week, the humidity was exceptionally high in Eugene when Micah and I went running and I was much sweatier than usual.  Later I learned that the barometer readings that day were 40%ish humidity.  By comparison, Japan summers usually hover around 90% humidity.  Dang.  These are ideal conditions for yoga, but will I be able to practice outside?  And how about running and all of the hiking and other outdoor activities that the Japan university has said that so many people do in the summer time?  It will take some time to adjust for sure… and also a CamelBack… my trusty one-liter pouch is definitely coming with me this summer!

Japanese language

I hardly know any!  I’ve been studying some Pimsleur and I can say a few key phrases:

“Sumimasen” (excuse me / I’m sorry)

“O hiyo gosaimas / Konichiwa / Kombanwa” (Hello for good morning, afternoon, and evening”

“Eigo-ga wakari mas ka?” (Do you speak English?)

“Nihongo-ga skoshi wakari mas.” (I can speak a little Japanese.)

“Amerika-jin des.” (I am American.” (as if it weren’t obvious!)

I would still like to learn the Japanese kanji for: “danger”, “exit”, “man”, “woman”, and “bathroom”.  I still have yet to do this!

Making a complete fool of myself or someone else

I fully expect to make funny foreigner mistakes and butcher my Japanese pronunciation even when I try not to and I’m okay with that.  What I don’t want to do is to very seriously offend someone accidentally or say something offensive.  Here’s hoping that I won’t, but learning from my mistakes if I do. 

Spending lots of money

I hope that I have remembered most of the things in the past few weeks that I won’t have to hemorrhage money on something essential in Japan that I could have purchased in the United States for much cheaper.  If it happens, it happens. But I’m hoping for the best.

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I’m (almost) prepared for this trip and I’m certainly ready to embark on this journey already.  What I hope to get out of this experience is the opportunity to live in and be immersed in a different culture, work in different professional environment, be  humbled by being a noobie in a new place, and of course traveling internationally to a new place, and traveling internationally with Micah.  I’m ready to see what this experience has in store for me.